How can i minimize the nasty dry frizzy~ness that a flat iron leaves my hair with?

my hair is real curl

curly-Q curly

i don't like it, i tried getting it chemically done

bu it didn't work at all

do u think its because i did it my self and gone it done by and amateur hair cut ladie that lives down the block? BONUS

should i get it professionally done?



real question

yes how i meen it gets so frizzy and dry when i use my flat iron,i even lower the heat and still no results

my hair doesn't even iron well it just wont relax

my hair is thick and brown and kinda soft

i like my long hair im looking for a way to maintain it

to me it looks ';dead';How can i minimize the nasty dry frizzy~ness that a flat iron leaves my hair with?
take a shower and use a moisturizing shampoo and conditioner.follow direections on both bottles but right before you get out of the shower put a little bit of conditioner in your hair and rinse with VERY cold water,this will relax the hair with the shampoo.and the conditioner and cold water will close the cuticles and keep hair shiny and soft and relaxed. blowdry with a round brush to rid of frizziness and pre-straighten. once finished with round brush give hair a quick blowdry with cold air,again this helps the cuticles with softness and dryness.straighten on a medium heat setting.wait until the section of hair your straightening cools down before you go back over it again.when finished go through hair with V05 smoothing spray and your done.people with textured hair types should only wash their hair every 2 days and be careeful with oils and certain sprays because if you use too much your hair can look greasy and dirty. hope i help